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       Articles 
 
 
Making Relationships Work 
An Interview with Paul Beckow, M.Sc., R.P.C., Marriage and Family therapist, Excerpted from Island Parent Magazine, 
 
Living Lightly - Living Freely Times Colonist, 2007 
 
Family Therapist Examines "Empowered Parenting" 
An interview with Paul Beckow M.Sc., R.P.C., Victoria Child Family Marriage Therapist, Excerpted from Saanich News, May 2000 
 
Winning With Stress 
An interview with Paul Beckow, M.Sc., R.P.C., Individual Couple Family Therapist 
 
The Flowering of Relationship - An exciting opportunity for Couples. Excerpted from the Victoria Times Colonist September 2003, Edited. 
 
New Dimensions of Effectiveness in the Practice of Therapy 
Written by Paul Beckow. Excerpted from the Healing Magazine and Journal of Clinical Counsellor's Association. 
 
 
Lets Talk Articles 
 
 
Goldstream Gazette: 
 
 
Understanding and taking reponsibility for our anger  -- November, 2011 
 
Relationship - Accepting Differences  -- September, 2011 
 
Its off to School we go !  -- August, 2011 
 
Gaining Control of Negative Thoughts  -- June 2011 
 
The Power of  Listening  -- May 2011 
 
Understanding the Poison Pill of Resentment  --  March, 2011 
 
After you Get your Valentine - Then What? (Reprint)  -- February 2011 
 
Putting the "Happy" in your New Year  --  January 2011 
 
A Christmas without Stress  -- December 2010 
 
Relationship - A Laboratory for Learning  -- November 2010 
 
Finding Mr. or Mrs. Right  -- October 2010 
 
Cleaning up the mess  -- September 2010 
 
The Art and Skill of Forgiveness  -- August 2010 
 
Avoiding the Blame Game in Relationship   -- July 2010 
 
Self Esteem - Being Gentle with Ourselves (Part one)   -- June 2010 
 
Self Esteem - Being Gentle with Ourselves (Part two)  -- April 2010  
 
We're Seldom Upset for the Reason We Think  -- March 2010  
 
Putting the "happy" in the New Year  -- January 2010  
 
Marital crisis can lead to a fresh start  -- November, 2009  
 
Taming the Gremlin Within  -- October, 2009  
 
With special effort, divorce can work-- July, 2009. 
 
What about me? When's it my turn?-- June, 2009. 
 
To Mothers Everywhere-- May, 2009. 
 
Communication - The Search for Understanding-- April, 2009. 
 
Relationship-So much to learn-- March 18, 2009. 
 
A Christmas Without Stress -- December 2008 
 
 
 
Saanich News: 
 
 
After you get your Valentine- then what?--February 2007. 
 
Living Lightly - Living Freely -- October 2007 
 
Making Your New Years Resolutions Stick!--January 2007 
 
Living with Teens- and Winning -- July 12, 2006 
 
Teens -A Method in the Madness -- June 21, 2006 
 
Responding to Gossip -- June 14, 2006 
 
New Path of Learning -- April 26, 2006 
 
How are we doing with our kids? -- April 5, 2006 
 
Relationship - A matter of distinctions -- February 22, 2006 
 
After you get your Valentine- then what?--February 2006. 
 
Making marriage work ! --February, 2006 
 
Blame digs a deeper hole -- February 8, 2006 
 
It's all Learning -- January 17, 2008 
 
The real Christmas present -- December, 2005 
 
The heart of the human spirit -- September 21, 2005 
 
Making Choices  -- July 6, 2005  
 
The Science of Happiness II -- June 22, 2005 
 
The Science of Happiness -- June 08, 2005  
 
Being Responsible Works  -- April 27, 2005  
 
Communication that works  -- April 13, 2005  
 
Loving the Differences  -- May 30, 2005  
 
Blended Families - Making two families One  -- March 16, 2005  
 
What is it with Stress these days?  -- January, 2005 
 
Not everyone is joyful at Christmas  -- December, 2004 
 
Graduation: A time of hope - and worry.  -- June, 2004  
 
The Heart of the Matter  -- January, 2004  
 
Relationship - Our School for Learning  -- September, 2003 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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For personal or couple counselling, for more information, or to register for a course - please contact Paul Beckow at The Victoria Family Institute. 
 
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